A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.
Unfollowing Your Ex Is Emotional Self-Defense
Is the most radical breakup move silently hitting “unfollow” and meaning it? Choosing to unfollow or block an ex isn’t petty; it’s emotional self-defense … Read On
Dating in Your 30s Isn’t Boring
In your 20s, you may have dated to be liked. You played it cool. But in your 30s, something shifts. Instead of chasing validation you demand understanding … Read On
The “3-Date Rule” Is Outdated
The “three-date rule” looms large over modern dating. But that script is not just outdated, it’s obsolete. Modern dating doesn’t run on arbitrary milestones … Read On
Why “Situationship Detoxes” Are Trending in 2025
For years, we’ve been told to keep things casual. Ambiguity became a vibe. And situationships—those murky half-relationships with no labels—flourished … Read On
Less Interviewing, More Connecting
You show up looking great—questions ready. You’re polite. You ask about their job, background, their five-year plan. Somehow, you’re now a hiring manager … Read On
When It Clicks
You’re suddenly smiling, listening, laughing, leaning in. Something’s happening. Something you can’t quite explain. That’s chemistry. Or is it? … Read On
The Rules of Soft vs. Hard Launching Your Relationship
The “soft launch” and the “hard launch” are two distinct strategies that help you navigate the tricky waters of relationship visibility on social media … Read On
All Charm, No Cringe
How do you craft witty, engaging messages that spark genuine interest? Here’s your FirstDate comprehensive guide to mastering the art of flirting online! … Read On
Dating App Trends for 2025
The future of dating is about swiping better, not swiping more. Think AI-powered matchmaking, real-time chemistry analysis, and digital accountability … Read On
NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD
See and Be Seen
From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date … Read On
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta
Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On
The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion
For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On
