Henrik J. Klijn

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Benched! What Now?

You’re seeing someone. Not exclusively, not seriously, but consistently. You’re not moving forward, but you're not ending it. You might be benching them ... Read On

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The Playtionship

The Playtionship - modern dating’s ambiguous middle ground between "just hanging out" and "definitely exclusive." It's exciting, confusing, and relatable ... Read On

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The Subtle Science

A first date can feel like you’re in a poker game—you’re both playing it cool, but signals are flying. The key to winning? Learning to read body language. ... Read On

Unfollow My Ex

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Unfollowing Your Ex Is Emotional Self-Defense

Is the most radical breakup move silently hitting “unfollow” and meaning it? Choosing to unfollow or block an ex isn't petty; it's emotional self-defense ... Read On

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Dating in Your 30s Isn’t Boring

In your 20s, you may have dated to be liked. You played it cool. But in your 30s, something shifts. Instead of chasing validation you demand understanding ... Read On

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The “3-Date Rule” Is Outdated

The “three-date rule” looms large over modern dating. But that script is not just outdated, it’s obsolete. Modern dating doesn't run on arbitrary milestones ... Read On

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Why “Situationship Detoxes” Are Trending in 2025

For years, we’ve been told to keep things casual. Ambiguity became a vibe. And situationships—those murky half-relationships with no labels—flourished ... Read On

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Less Interviewing, More Connecting

You show up looking great—questions ready. You’re polite. You ask about their job, background, their five-year plan. Somehow, you’re now a hiring manager ... Read On

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When It Clicks

You’re suddenly smiling, listening, laughing, leaning in. Something’s happening. Something you can’t quite explain. That’s chemistry. Or is it? ... Read On