A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.
Healing Is a Journey
“You can’t love anyone until you love yourself.” It sounds like a diagnosis: if you’re not perfectly whole you’re not fit to date. That logic is flawed … Read On
Bare Minimum? Barely Interested.
Modern daters are done with uncertainty. They’re over the guessing games. What they want now is intention. Something that feels deliberate, not default … Read On
Should You Split the Bill?
In modern dating, the bill isn’t just paper. It’s a Rorschach test. And your reaction to it says more about your choices than your Instagram bio ever could … Read On
Dating a High Achiever
It’s easy to get dazzled by someone who seems to sprint through life. That intensity can be thrilling, but not everyone moves at the same emotional speed … Read On
Making Magic Happen
The best first dates don’t just unfold—they seem designed to resonate. Not with forced charm or overt displays, but with emotional transparency and purpose … Read On
Textual Chemistry
You matched, swiped, flirted. Three dots flash, then vanish, then reappear… Here’s why text compatibility is just as important as physical attraction … Read On
Benched! What Now?
You’re seeing someone. Not exclusively, not seriously, but consistently. You’re not moving forward, but you’re not ending it. You might be benching them … Read On
The Playtionship
The Playtionship – modern dating’s ambiguous middle ground between “just hanging out” and “definitely exclusive.” It’s exciting, confusing, and relatable … Read On
NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD
See and Be Seen
From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date … Read On
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta
Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On
The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion
For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On
