A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.
Making Magic Happen
The best first dates don’t just unfold—they seem designed to resonate. Not with forced charm or overt displays, but with emotional transparency and purpose … Read On
Textual Chemistry
You matched, swiped, flirted. Three dots flash, then vanish, then reappear… Here’s why text compatibility is just as important as physical attraction … Read On
Benched! What Now?
You’re seeing someone. Not exclusively, not seriously, but consistently. You’re not moving forward, but you’re not ending it. You might be benching them … Read On
The Playtionship
The Playtionship – modern dating’s ambiguous middle ground between “just hanging out” and “definitely exclusive.” It’s exciting, confusing, and relatable … Read On
The Subtle Science
A first date can feel like you’re in a poker game—you’re both playing it cool, but signals are flying. The key to winning? Learning to read body language. … Read On
Unfollowing Your Ex Is Emotional Self-Defense
Is the most radical breakup move silently hitting “unfollow” and meaning it? Choosing to unfollow or block an ex isn’t petty; it’s emotional self-defense … Read On
Dating in Your 30s Isn’t Boring
In your 20s, you may have dated to be liked. You played it cool. But in your 30s, something shifts. Instead of chasing validation you demand understanding … Read On
The “3-Date Rule” Is Outdated
The “three-date rule” looms large over modern dating. But that script is not just outdated, it’s obsolete. Modern dating doesn’t run on arbitrary milestones … Read On
NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD
See and Be Seen
From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date … Read On
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta
Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On
The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion
For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On
